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Live and learn: 10 life lessons to take with you into your 30’s Part 1

Updated: Apr 4, 2023


In your 20s, you are still finding yourself and figuring out who you are and what you want in life. Your 30s are a time when you really start to come into your own. These are the years when you learn from your mistakes, become more wise and mature, and start to care less about what other people think of you.


Here are 10 life lessons that you will learn in your 30s:


Life Lessons Learned in Your 20s vs 30s

In your 20s, you are still finding yourself and figuring out who you are and what you want in life. Your 30s are a time when you really start to come into your own. In your 20s, you are more likely to take risks and make impulsive decisions. In your 30s, you are more likely to think things through and make more calculated decisions. In your 20s, you tend to care more about what other people think of you. In your 30s, you start to care less about what others think and focus more on what makes you happy.


In your 20s, you are more likely to experience some major life transitions, such as graduating from college, getting your first job, getting married, or having children. These transitions can be both exciting and challenging. In your 30s, you may also experience some major life transitions, such as changing jobs or moving to a new city. But in general, your 30s tend to be more stable than your 20s.


Your 20s are a time when you learn from your mistakes. In your 30s, you learn from your successes and failures. You also start to become more wise and mature.

You will care less about what other people think of you

As you enter your 30s, you will start to care less about what other people think of you. You will become more comfortable in your own skin and learn to trust your own judgement. You will also focus more on what you think of yourself. This newfound confidence and assertiveness will lead you to be less likely to compare yourself to others.


In your 20s, you are still finding yourself and figuring out who you are and what you want in life. Your 30s are a time when you really start to come into your own. In your 20s, you are more likely to take risks and make impulsive decisions. In your 30s, you are more likely to think things through and make more calculated decisions. In your 20s, you tend to care more about what other people think of you. In your 30s, you start to care less about what others think and focus more on what makes you happy.


This newfound confidence in your 30s comes from a variety of life experiences. You will have made some mistakes and learned from them. You will also have had some successes that have boosted your confidence. As you enter your 30s, you will have a better understanding of who you

are and what you want in life. This clarity allows you to focus on what is truly important to you instead of worrying about what other people think.


So why exactly do people in their 30s start to care less about what others think? One reason is that they have developed a thicker skin after years of dealing with criticism and rejection. They have also learned that not everyone is going to like them and that's okay. Another reason is that they have realized that other people's opinions don't matter as much as they used to because they know themselves better now.


If caring less about what others think sounds good to you, there are a few things that can help accelerate the process. First, try not to compare yourself to others as much as possible. Everyone is on their own journey and comparing yourself will only lead to feelings of insecurity and self-doubt. Second, practice accepting compliments graciously instead of downplaying them or brushing them off. Finally, work on building up your self-confidence by accepting yourself for who you are flaws and all.

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